tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post7237761208750873592..comments2023-11-03T08:03:15.599-05:00Comments on Killer Fiction: ChangesKathy Bacushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07549844839816876766noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-91794505551152409962011-05-18T08:17:23.760-05:002011-05-18T08:17:23.760-05:00I'm late, Robin, but wanted to say this was a ...I'm late, Robin, but wanted to say this was a wonderful blog. Your son sounds like he's what an eagle scout should be even if he didn't earn the badge.Keena Kincaidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15985958126062809043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-34090088940765264102011-05-18T07:56:02.548-05:002011-05-18T07:56:02.548-05:00Kate - Thanks so much.Kate - Thanks so much.Robin Kayehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16262933225938609682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-6740829800989452542011-05-17T21:22:18.895-05:002011-05-17T21:22:18.895-05:00Gwynlyn - You are so right! It's so hard to st...Gwynlyn - You are so right! It's so hard to step back and watch them fail. <br /><br />@ Aarbaugh - It was great talking to you too! <br /><br />@ Mary - I love to watch character's grow and change I think that's why I write character driven stories. People have always fascinated me. You can learn a lot about a person when you watch them lose. <br /><br />Debra - I love it too! A friend just emailed me. She said her son's name is Hunter and her husband wanted her to name their second Fisher but she wouldn't. I love all the names for this series, Hunter, Trapper, Fisher and especially Karma. We'll see if my publisher wants Karma's book. She's my favorite and I'd really love to see her get a bit of her own medicine. :)Robin Kayehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16262933225938609682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-49416430877236577622011-05-17T21:14:06.938-05:002011-05-17T21:14:06.938-05:00You've very aptly described those awful moment...You've very aptly described those awful moments in life where failure can't be fixed - and you put a positive spin on it. I guess I can see why your son is able to handle his disappointment with such grace - he has had an example to follow. Well done, both of you!Kate Dolanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09286095357993261335noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-66961800837297143312011-05-17T21:04:03.510-05:002011-05-17T21:04:03.510-05:00What a wonderful blog Robin! Your son has learned...What a wonderful blog Robin! Your son has learned a wonderful lesson that will carry him through life. Which is really the whole point. Says what great parents you and your husband are to have allowed him to make mistakes instead of making it too easy for him. <br /><br />I'm very excited on the new book! Love the name Fisher!Debra Key Newhousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17502233369438356559noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-2094156260221410682011-05-17T19:51:22.977-05:002011-05-17T19:51:22.977-05:00Robin,
I find the subject you are discussing bitte...Robin,<br />I find the subject you are discussing bitter-sweet. When you spoke of your son it touched my heart. Those gut wrenching moments when our children face something we can't help them with. So wonderful he met it with grace and maturity. Three cheers for all of you!<br /><br />And your characters sound fascinating--looking at how they deal with changes in their lives. Its funny, we can choose to meet our changes in life head on or we can fall to pieces. There never seems to be any in-between.M.V.Freemanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11680136284255619758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-80740945144086053802011-05-17T18:51:27.468-05:002011-05-17T18:51:27.468-05:00Thanks for sharing your son's story. I truly b...Thanks for sharing your son's story. I truly believe that you can learn more by coming in second (or failing) than you can by winning. He'll remember this as a life lesson and be all the better for it. Sounds like you've done a great job as a mom. We all know you're doing a fantastic job as a writer. Loved chatting with you at MRW!aarbaughhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12904169857906839203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-39180784086799826132011-05-17T16:14:23.962-05:002011-05-17T16:14:23.962-05:00Robin, Hugs to your boy and kudos to his mama for ...Robin, Hugs to your boy and kudos to his mama for rearing such a wonderful son.<br /><br />I've always said standing back and watching them fall is the hardest part of being a good parent. But they need to do that while you are still there to help them up, bandage the scrapes, shoo them onward or they will be so unprepared for the real world.<br /><br />Sounds like you have it down, not only on paper but in life. No wonder I love your books so much.<br /><br />{{{Hugs}}}Gwynlynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13131507614528809505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-86240231624972942722011-05-17T15:56:59.998-05:002011-05-17T15:56:59.998-05:00@ Cathy - Thanks so much. I'm so proud of all ...@ Cathy - Thanks so much. I'm so proud of all my kids. They're pretty amazing. As for my books, I'm so glad you enjoy them! <br /><br />@ Heather - I love that saying! Wow-5th in your class, I'm impressed! I'll be sure to tell him!Robin Kayehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16262933225938609682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-21134234921451982242011-05-17T13:54:00.426-05:002011-05-17T13:54:00.426-05:00I know I'm not getting the wording exactly rig...I know I'm not getting the wording exactly right, but I love the old saying, "When people make plans, God laughs." <br />Tell your son you know a girl who failed out of nursing school after only one semester. Big lesson learned! Thankfully, I came back with a vengence and graduated 5th in my class. <br />Sometimes you just have to take the scenic route!Heather Bitzerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17430049130283540975noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-62852827700301711712011-05-17T13:40:55.078-05:002011-05-17T13:40:55.078-05:00Hi Robin
Watching our children grow into adults is...Hi Robin<br />Watching our children grow into adults is a blessing. Congratulations on both your son's ability to find his feet and to soar. <br />I love your stories - and that your hero/heroine find their balance as individuals who choose to be together at the end. Can't wait to read the next one!<br />Cathy PerkinsCathyPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04671747592743029540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-70343227456590325162011-05-17T13:28:40.167-05:002011-05-17T13:28:40.167-05:00@ Savannah - Wow, that's so cool. I had best f...@ Savannah - Wow, that's so cool. I had best friends who were twins and soooo close. Those two didn't even need to speak. We were the three musketeers. We spent all our time together and the only way I could tell them apart was because they parted their hair on opposite sides. <br /><br />As for my son, he is a real gentleman. I routinely have other parents call me to tell me how wonderful he is and ask me if he'd date their daughters. LOL He's learned how to deal with his ADD but when he was younger, it was so exasperating. He was a regular fart in the wind. <br /><br />@ Deborah - He's doing amazingly well and your right, he doesn't need a badge to prove it. The scholarship money would have been nice though...<br /><br />Still, I'm so proud of him for working so hard to get as far as he has. He's turning into an amazing young man.Robin Kayehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16262933225938609682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-78163796336305737442011-05-17T13:19:41.568-05:002011-05-17T13:19:41.568-05:00For some reason, my friend Deborah couldn't co...For some reason, my friend Deborah couldn't comment so she sent me an email and asked for me to post it for her. Here it is:<br /><br /><br />Hey Robin,<br />This is one of those times when even an I-told-you-so feels too hollow. There are not many. I've railed at my kids so many times to think forward--work toward the long term goal. Don't forget or get sidetracked and then come up at the eleventh hour short of the finish line when all of a sudden long term is today. It is a hard lesson but one not forgotten.<br /><br />Your son will soar and he-don't-need-no-stinkin'-badge to prove it. <br /><br />Be Proud.<br /><br />DeborahRobin Kayehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16262933225938609682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-20796547981214515472011-05-17T13:14:40.242-05:002011-05-17T13:14:40.242-05:00Can totally relate to Hunter and Fisher. I have an...Can totally relate to Hunter and Fisher. I have an identical twin sister. Even though I didn't feel her pain but 2 times in 41 years, she's always been able to feel mine. <br /><br />You're son sounds like a real gentleman. I caught myself tearing up when I read he had failed to complete the task to receive his Eagle but then a smile quickly replaced the frown when I read how "manly" he handled the disappointment. I have a nephew with ADD/ADHD and I understand how frustrating it can be not only to the parents but also to the child.Angela Hood-Rosshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17985240493993599473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-62608874402925429792011-05-17T11:12:08.571-05:002011-05-17T11:12:08.571-05:00@ Diana-I'm bless with incredible kids. My son...@ Diana-I'm bless with incredible kids. My son now has turned his sights to working on his ROTC scholarship. He got a slow start but he's making up for lost time. As for the characters - they're so fun and clueless. I'm really enjoying writing them.<br /><br />@ Adele- Scouting and ROTC have both been amazing. The leadership skills he's learned are invaluable. Hmm...maybe Fisher should have been a boy scout after all.<br /><br />@ Sandy - So true. Goals are so necessary to a good life--even if you never reach them, they keep you moving forward, yearning for improvement. <br /><br />Elizabeth - I love the Creed - I listen to it every year with my daughter at Special Olympics and haven't been able to keep a dry eye yet. Another amazing organization.Robin Kayehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16262933225938609682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-44284302479177008752011-05-17T11:02:18.499-05:002011-05-17T11:02:18.499-05:00@ Diana - I totally agree--he's an amazing you...@ Diana - I totally agree--he's an amazing young man. As for the book, I'm so excited to write it. It's going to be so much fun! I just love Jessie and Fisher--we'll see if they survive each other.<br /><br />@ Chapmansmythe--Love you too, Ronna! <br /><br />@ Amanda - Enjoy the time they're young. My baby is almost 14, and although she's still cuddly, she's way too big to put on my lap anymore. I miss my babies.Robin Kayehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16262933225938609682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-72638001957878520432011-05-17T10:53:27.827-05:002011-05-17T10:53:27.827-05:00The Olympic Creed….
"The most important thin...The Olympic Creed….<br /><br />"The most important thing is not to win but to take part, just as the most important thing in life is not the triumph but the struggle. The essential thing is not to have conquered, but to have fought well." Pierre De Coubertin<br /><br />Your son fought well and should be proud.Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11378992016738669717noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-11211431992208730902011-05-17T09:38:50.872-05:002011-05-17T09:38:50.872-05:00Robin,
Congratulate your son on being a man. He ...Robin,<br /><br />Congratulate your son on being a man. He did great.<br /><br />I like the sound of your story. We set high goals for ourselves, but do not always make them. If we didn't set the goals; we wouldn't try to attain anything.Sandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01843816981385732033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-92150787173149706602011-05-17T09:21:42.520-05:002011-05-17T09:21:42.520-05:00Your son's dedication to scouting during his f...Your son's dedication to scouting during his formative years will serve him well during his lifetime. Kudos to him.<br /><br />I think everyone can relate to your topic. Life changes are hard! <br /><br />Best of luck with your book!<br /><br />~AdeleAdele Duboishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01975297711548126595noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-85015219470585095842011-05-17T08:46:08.092-05:002011-05-17T08:46:08.092-05:00Robin,
Such a wonderful post on a heart-movin...Robin,<br /> Such a wonderful post on a heart-moving topic. Watching our kids, their challenges makes us so aware of those yet to face. I'm so proud of your son for taking it like a man. Sounds like he has amazing parents who taught him such life-necessary lessons. I have confidence that through life's trials, your children will do amazing.<br /> Love your character's challenges. Definitely an interesting read. Wishing you continued success! *Hugs*Diana Cosbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16417576796848731002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-69948399820302135862011-05-17T08:37:56.554-05:002011-05-17T08:37:56.554-05:00Great blog, Robin!
My duaghter is 17 months old, ...Great blog, Robin!<br /><br />My duaghter is 17 months old, and I see changes daily. It's pretty amazing.<br /><br />Yay on the new book!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-972549117186315052011-05-17T08:34:37.849-05:002011-05-17T08:34:37.849-05:00robin. Thats kinda why i love ya. That finding you...robin. Thats kinda why i love ya. That finding your footing is so very hard. And its all new and hard and scary. ;) Yea on your son, and yea on your characters. ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4542417548623715196.post-29205828980657849592011-05-17T08:28:03.767-05:002011-05-17T08:28:03.767-05:00Your son still has a lot to be proud of with all o...Your son still has a lot to be proud of with all of the hard work he's been doing.<br /><br />As to your new book, it'll be interesting to watch your characters stumble and then find themselves. After all, it's all about the journey!Diana Quincyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10299765714454287435noreply@blogger.com